What Men Want? 3 Things Guys Want From a Woman
870 days ago
Have you ever wondered what men want? Do you think you have what a guy wants, but don’t know how to make him see that? Are you ready for a relationship that meets your needs and his? Do you want to turn yourself into a woman that men really want? Often times relationships are confusing. Men and women just aren’t the same and that often causes issue. However you can find out what men want.
Exude Inner Beauty.
You don’t have to be a knockout to be a beautiful woman. You need to have confidence in who you are and exude inner beauty. This isn’t always easy to do and there seem to be plenty of things in life to get us down. However, work on liking and loving yourself so that your inner beauty shines through.
Take Care Of Yourself.
Taking care of yourself falls into several categories. First of all you need to take care of yourself physically. Work on staying healthy; it is important. Next you need to work on making yourself look your best. Do this by emphasizing the features about yourself that you like and de-emphasizing the things you don’t like. Don’t forget to take care of yourself mentally while you are at it. This is also important!
Choose Your Make Up, Clothing, and Accessories Carefully.
This is often hard to do because there are lots of different opinions about fashion. However, you should use make up to highlight your best features, but don’t get carried away. You should choose clothing that accents your best features, but that doesn’t reveal them to the world. You should also choose accessories that aid you in your quest for highlighting your best features and covering up your less desirable features.
These three tips will help you get the attention of the man you want. You can get his attention, keep it, and capture his heart. What men want is a woman who has inner beauty, who takes care of herself, and who looks her best. You can do it!
The Foolproof How-To on Calling Men
989 days ago
Has the rules on calling men ever confused you? Do you find yourself spending most of your waking hours around the phone a few days after you gave your number to a guy you really like? Do you worry about what could have gone wrong with you when he doesn’t call after the first date? For most women, getting through a first date is hard enough without having to worry about whether the guy will ever call again after that. Sometimes, ladies even wish that calling men after the first date is socially acceptable so they can just get the anxiety over and done with.
The ball is on the other court
Unfortunately, our social construct dictates that guys should be the ones to call first to initiate a relationship. After the first date, the ball is entirely in their side of the court and it is up to them to decide whether to throw it right back at us again or to take it somewhere else. But this doesn’t mean that you should just twiddle your thumbs beside the phone hoping it would ring for that phone call that you’ve been waiting for. If you can’t stand the suspense, calling men shouldn’t be considered a bad thing. There’s just a proper way of doing it.
If you really must make the phone call, try not to sound so desperate. At the start of a relationship, a guy can easily be turned off by someone who just has to know when he’s going to ask her out on a date again. Don’t intrude on your guy’s personal space.
Don’t be too available
Another rule that you have to remember is to keep yourself from being too available to answer his phone calls. When you keep running to the phone each time he calls, he’ll just take it for granted that you will always be there. Men enjoy the thrill of a chase and this is what makes new relationships exciting for them. Answer his calls but don’t drop everything else each time the phone rings. Guys understand that you have a life of your own so just live it.
Keep it short
Keeping your phone conversations short will make your guy want to see you in person to continue on where you’ve left off. It’s after all, much better to talk to an actual person over dinner or a cup of coffee than over the phone. So when you’re calling men, don’t stay on the phone talking as though you’re just talking to one of your girlfriends.
Great Things About Being Single - Celebrate Being Free!
989 days ago
Being in a relationship sure is great, overwhelming and phenomenal and of course, nothing beats the feeling of being in love and being loved in return. But it sure can bring a lot of stress and pressure as well. No sweat, no glory as the say. If you’re one of those who just recently survived a broken heart, or has split with someone special or plainly single and available, then celebrate being one! There are so many privileges when you’re single and ready to mingle. Below is a list of great things about being single. It can be refreshing and liberating too!
• You can flirt as much as you please. And date as much as you want. When was the last time you surrounded yourself with pretty girls in a bar? Or better yet, invite your girl friends for dinner for a pure chat and drinking session. And yes, you can drink as much as you want just as long you still can get yourself home afterwards.
• You don’t have to remember important dates for anniversaries. You were having trouble memorizing them in the first place. Now, you can completely ditch your calendar, be completely unaware of the time and go paint the town red. Oh it’s been three days already? Heck, who cares?
• You can go out with your friends without asking permission to anyone. Now, you can stay out until the wee hours of the morning without 20 messages in your phone blaring and demanding an explanation on your whereabouts. You can invite girls over to make the night more sizzling without feeling guilty and bad about yourself. Let’s get the party started!
Well, to put it simply, you can absolutely do whatever you darn want to do with your life! Of course, being single can be a bummer sometimes, but there’s a chance to start a new beginning with someone else as well. Make sure you’ve settled issues about your past and ready to take another plunge at love. By now, indulge into the freedom of being single—- life is great.
Will you take the plunge and set up an online dating profile?
994 days ago
There are top five reasons to throw your hat into the ring.
1. You’re not meeting anyone of the opposite sex.
If you’re a lady and all of your friends are also ladies and when you go out you are surrounded by a bunch of ladies there is little chance you are going to meet a bloke any time soon. Same goes if you are a fella who hangs with only fellas. Worse still if you do so in pubs where televisions pump out non-stop sport. Let’s face it: chicks just don’t dig these joints. The stale beer stench should have clued you in to that. So jump online and open up a safe channel for the opposite sex to approach because really, no bloke is going to take on your posse of sheilas and no babe is going to brave the toothless dudes propped up at the bar of your local.
2. You think there’s a man drought.
There are men and plenty of them. Page after page of single .There are guys out there .They are single and they want to meet you. Maybe some want to meet you in a desperate “I have no friends and will stalk you until you go out with me” way but it’s up to you to do the filtering.
3. What you want is rather specific.
The beauty of online dating is you can narrow the field down to the most specific of qualities. Let’s say, hypothetically speaking of course, I’m on the hunt for a Pisces that lives within ten kilometers, is taller than 178 centimetres, likes yoga, works in the media, speaks French and has a sarcastic sense of humour. I can search for that online and while it reduces the number of potential matches, if these things are really that important, then online is the place to be. Imagine meeting that criterion in a bar. It’s just not going to happen. That said, it pays to keep something of an open mind. For example I’m willing to let the whole speaking French thing go. The rest is non negotiable.
4. Location location location
Where else can you trawl for your match in your pj’s or sweaty workout gear after a session at the gym? The beauty of online dating is you get to do all of the vetting from the most comfortable place imaginable. It’s also a whole lot easier to turn down unwanted advances online than in the flesh and this is the only time I would ever recommend wearing Ugg boots in a dating situation. Come to think of it, this is the only time I’d recommend wearing Ugg boots full stop.
5. It actually works
You may recall my tale of a friend who recently tied the knot to the man she met online and she is far from alone. Online success stories abound. Sure, she lies and tells everyone they met under completely different circumstances but she’s a very attractive, very normal person and so is he. See, online dating isn’t just for freaks so what are you waiting for? Give it a shot and let me know how it pans out. Oh, and I’m serious about those Ugg boots.
Seeking Men Who Are in it for the Long Haul
994 days ago
Read on to learn how to find a long-term partner and what to do once you’ve found him.
You’ve done everything right to find a date, from setting up your profile on an Internet site to letting your friends hook you up with potential partners. Finding a date might not be the problem it’s finding a match who is in it for the long haul that can be the real challenge. If you’re having trouble finding a partner who’s ready to commit it can make dating feel like you’re driving down a dead-end street, but before you give up on finding a man who is in it for the long haul, read on to learn how to find a long-term partner and what to do once you’ve found him.
Communicate Clearly and Effectively from the Beginning
If you want to find someone who is in it for the long haul be sure to discuss basic issues like your views on money, children and marriage before you commit to a long-term relationship. These aren’t topics you need to bring up on the first date but once you realize your partner is a potential long-term mate, check in and see if your values and what’s important to both of you in life is a match. Differences such as if one person wants kids and the other doesn’t, generally don’t change and usually aren’t negotiable.
Keep a Positive Attitude
Not all men are just interested in dating around, there are plenty out there who do want to commit and are in it for the long haul. The key is to find that person by keeping a positive attitude, your options open and your spirits up because just like women, men want to date someone who is happy to be around. Don’t get discouraged and keep dating; it sounds simple, but the best way to find the right partner is to have a large pool to choose from.
Stick to what you Want and Believe In
You have to know what you want and then give yourself permission to ask for it and realize you deserve it. You can’t see what the future holds for your relationship but the best thing to do is set your expectations from the beginning. If your new beau is already showing signs it’s hard for him to commit, be honest and let him know you’re looking for a long-term relationship. This will give him the option to step up or stop wasting your time (and his) and bow out gracefully. If he does tell you he isn’t ready to settle down, listen and believe him, instead of thinking his feelings will change sometime soon.
Is he Ready to Commit?
If you’re looking for a man who is in it for the long haul you need to make sure he isn’t afraid to commit and sees a future with you. Ask yourself if your partner has a shared vision of the both of you together. Does he have an ‘us’ mindset? When talking about future plans does he include you in them?
Once you’ve found him, and he’s in it for the long haul, nurture the relationship.
When you’re in it for the long haul the work doesn’t stop. You have to be willing to maintain that original passion that brought you both together in the first place. Continue to have date nights, talk about subjects other than work and the kids, and have a ‘check-in’ with your relationship every few months to make sure you bot
Why Are Women Attracted to Bad Guys? Here is Something Every Man Must Know
994 days ago
It is common knowledge that sometimes women get fed up with the typical “goody goody Prince Charming” type of guy, and are now looking at the “bad” more exciting ‘macho man’ as the man of their dreams. Perhaps a look at the tips below will give you an insight as to why this is so.
Women like to be surprised by her guy. If you are boring and so predictable, then you can be in danger of losing your girl. She will look at guys who are more exciting.
Haven’t you noticed that the bad guy always gets the girl? Sometimes being nice, and giving her a shoulder to cry on is just not enough! Get tough!
A bold and daring attitude is what makes them attractive. The more arrogant they are, the more the girls like them. Turn them on by that “love me if you dare!” look in your eyes.
When “bad boys” are rude and insensitive and say things like “you look awful in that thing you call a skirt!” or “Let’s see that smile “funny face!” they take the edge off by saying those things with a smile! It’s as if they know that you won’t mind!
Being “ordinary and polite” is out and being “arrogant and saucy” is in! Women don’t mind being treated badly by a guy with an attitude as long as they feel that he is interested in her.
Bad boys are not clingy or shy. They keep their distance and play it cool. This usually has the opposite effect and the girl comes running!
Bad Boys are not afraid of trying out something new. Girls love the excitement of not knowing where things are heading and are pleasantly surprised when the guy has lots of exciting new activities lined up for her!
How to Make Girls Like You - Here Are the Most Important Keys You Must Be Aware of at All Costs
1107 days ago
You need to like yourself for what you are before you even think of making girls like you. If you don’t like what you see and know about yourself then be sure others too may not like what they see. So here are three tips to start with.
Be natural-
Being natural and your true self is the best way to ensure that girls like you. Remember girls have a sixth sense which will tell them if your act is put on. Besides if your act of good behavior is put on, then it is temporary, and very likely that you may forget to act the same way the next time. So be the person you are. If, however, you feel the need to put on an act then see to it that you inculcate that same behavior. Change yourself to behave the way you think a girl would like.
Do not brag-
The last thing impressive about a guy is his bragging ways. It’s easy to see through such behavior and it will only turn away the girls rather than make them like you. If you’re not what you would like to be do not resort to bragging about being those things; there’s a better way to make it known. Tell the girls that these are your dreams and that you hope to achieve them someday. Tell them you are working in that direction and they will love you for being truthful.
Be lively and jovial-
It’s common knowledge that a lively and jovial person is the center of attraction. Add humor to further liven up your personality. Be the perfect guy by adding a touch of chivalry as well. A girl just loves it if you fuss over her. There’s hardly any girl who does not get taken in by the way you ‘dance around her’ not literally of course. Put on the right expressions and smiles; mind your body language too as it communicates the person you are.
With these tips you’re sure to succeed.
Does Being in a Relationship With a Woman Really Make Your Life Better?
1107 days ago
A lot of guys come with the false belief that if they had a woman in their life or were in a relationship then their life would somehow be much better than it currently is.
In a certain sense, these guys are on the right track because being in a relationship with a quality woman can make your life a whole lot better if you already have a good or great life to begin with.
When your life is good and you are in control of it bringing other healthy and attractive people in it that you like naturally makes your life better as well.
However, the key to having a woman make your life better is both that you are in control of your own life and you are happy or good with where you are at now.
If you are missing either one of those two things getting in a relationship with a woman will change it alright, only you will be looking at the additional struggle that attempting to carry a woman when you can’t even help yourself brings; which is a whole lot of heartache, pain, frustration, and disappointment.
Of course, if you truly are a man who happens to be looking for a woman to take control of his life for him you might luck up and find one like that but truth be told even then you already have to be good and satisfied with where you are at right now as well.
In other words, no matter what if you truly do want to be in a great relationship with a great woman you must become a great man all by yourself first.
Otherwise you will end up settling for less than you deserve in a dis empowering relationship which will move you even further away from where you want to be.
The 5 Habits of Men Who Really Love Their Women
1276 days ago
Most guys often feel too comfortable and tend to fool around after being in a relationship for quite some time. The morning kisses, the flowers, the romantic walks, and even the excitement of having nights of fiery passion all seem to be forgotten. For many, there is really nothing wrong with this. However, if you want to keep the fire and passion in your relationship, you better not let the following behaviors slip away into oblivion:
Showering Her With Compliments
After working so hard to look good and beautiful for you, women usually want to know that you appreciate their efforts. The moment she walks in front of you, take some time to look at her and admire the way she looks. Then, tell her how gorgeous she looks on the dress or how much you like her smell. However, do not say anything that you don’t mean just to get her under the sheets. Women can usually sense if her guy is pulling her leg.
Giving Her Hello And Goodbye Kisses
It is a known fact that every man enjoys kissing his wife, partner or girlfriend. However, the moment you step inside your house after a day’s work, the first thing you do is probably head to the couch and get the remote. If you want to make your woman special, always give her a quick kiss or even just a smack on the lips to let her know that she is the number one person in your life. It also pays to give her a goodbye kiss when you are leaving. According to experts, women want affection on a regular basis. The act of kissing your girlfriend or wife every time you come and go is a sure way to keep your physical connection.
Showing Excitement When You See Her Naked
When you were just starting out together, you probably just couldn’t help but ogle at her naked body. In fact, the mere sight of her breasts probably excited and titillated you. Unfortunately, after being together for quite some time, you may be even telling her to move her butt so that you can watch the week’s top football touchdowns.
It is important that you tell your girl how much you adore her body every once in a while or else she might feel that you are no longer attracted to her. Sometimes, a woman can be so insecure about the way she looks and if you do not remind her that you like her body just the way it is, she might feel dejected. If you spend too much time in the office, she might even think that you are already seeing someone or that you are having an affair. It would even be better if you reach out for her naked body to show her that you can’t keep your naughty hands to yourself.
Surprising Her For No Apparent Reason
In order to break the monotony in your relationship, you need to surprise her every so often. Sending flowers when she is feeling blue, giving her gifts just to show you care, cooking her breakfast in bed, and even just slipping notes in her bag or coat. These little gestures will keep her on her toes and assure her that she is in your thoughts always.
Minding Your Appearance
Once a man gets a girl, he sometimes forgets to pay attention to his grooming and appearance. He tends to miss his gym sessions and starts dressing too casually. As a result, love handles and fat pockets seem to prop up in the middle of his torso. Although women do not usually mind how men look, you do not need to totally neglect your physical appearance. If you want her to feel proud that she is going out with you, don’t forget to shave, wear clean shirts and even lose a little weight in your abdominal area.
2 Tips For Better Communication
1290 days ago
Ah, communication. This has to be the single biggest source of conflict between the sexes. Women want more of it, men want less of it.
So how can we create a happy medium?
Well, to start, it’s important to understand that women communicate to establish relationships. When women communicate with each other they’re doing it as a way to bond and show that they care about each other. When two women friends haven’t spoken in a few weeks or years, the very first thing they do is apologize for not staying in touch. This is also why women get hurt when a man doesn’t call the next day after a date. In a woman’s world it’s just bad manners to not communicate!
Men communicate to share information, not to establish relationships. Men are hardwired for efficiency and it doesn’t make any sense in their world to say more than what’s needed to be said. Men are bottom line orientated and use their words to get to the point of what they’re saying as quickly as possible. They also don’t talk as much because there just isn’t that much going on inside a man’s mind compared to women. Women’s minds are often buzzing on 16 different tracks all at the same time – observe a group of women talking and you can see how this shows up.
When a man isn’t talking, it can feel like a deafening silence to a woman. She’ll often assume something MUST be wrong and will start asking questions to get a ‘feel’ for what is REALLY going on with a guy. The truth is, there really isn’t anything ‘going on’. More than likely a man will be thinking about his carburetor, the mortgage or how he’s going to create his next big business deal.
Years ago, when I discovered this difference about men and women it was such a huge relief! So many times I’d be on a date and as soon as there was a lull in the conversation I’d start to get an uncomfortable feeling in the pit of my stomach. Panic would set in and I immediately felt the need to fill the space with words. You can imagine the silly things that would fly out of my mouth when you’re coming from fear and panic!
2 TIPS FOR BETTER COMMUNICATION:
1) For guys, if you want to make women feel more comfortable, look for ways that you can add in words and embellish what your saying to a woman wherever possible. If you’re sensing an uncomfortable silence and can’t think of anything to say, start asking questions about her to get her talking. Making this small effort will win you huge points in a woman’s world. Remember, women talk to show they care and by creating more conversation your showing that she matters.
2) For women, don’t be frustrated by a man’s silence. Try to understand that men have a simpler approach when it comes to communication and the fact that they use less words doesn’t mean they don’t care about you. Remember, men are bottom line orientated so the kind thing to do with men is to be as direct as possible. If you’re asking a man to do something for you or you want him to listen, then just get to the point of what you’re trying to say as quickly as possible.
Sending you lots of love and wishing you tremendous dating and relationship success!